Husband rejecting children 

I have been married for 15 years and we are blessed with four children. My husband now claims that the children are not his despite the fact that they clearly resemble him in many ways, even down to their dental formula, facial expression, and walking style. I strongly feel he is trying to run away from his responsibilities or he has mistresses somewhere. This is really exasperating. I cannot focus with my life. Apart from that, I have also heard he has two children somewhere with one of his mistresses.What should I do?

AD, Dar es Salaam

We are sorry to hear about this. Under Tanzanian law, children born during a valid marriage are presumed to be the husband’s, and he cannot change that simply by denying it. If he wants to dispute this presumption, he must go to Court and prove it, usually through a DNA test. Until a Court decides otherwise, he remains legally responsible for the children, including providing maintenance and care. His claims alone have no legal effect, and you have the right to take legal action to ensure he does not avoid his responsibilities and that the children’s welfare is protected. Please contact your lawyer for further guidance.